We are a few months away from a new year and decade. There’s an old adage that says that hindsight is 20/20. It’s a little ironic that I came to the conclusion that the early 2000s was the absolute worst decade for fashion in the history of mankind just before the year 2020. Sometimes it takes a while to come to terms with your past. Consider yourself fortunate if you were not born yet or were still too young to make your own sartorial decisions.
“Mean Girls” 2004
I saw a picture on Pinterest today of a red carpet event that took place in the early 2000s. The image brought back memories of my own terrible fashion choices from that time. We all looked a mess. We all looked a bit slutty, unfinished, sloppy, with big curls in our hair and heavy make up.
Me with blonde streaks in my hair and a suitor in 2003.
I don’t know who we should blame for the lost fashion decade at the turn of the century. Forever 21, Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera and Destiny’s Child can all shoulder a bit of the blame. The film “Mean Girls” did their part to bring about the Thotpacalypse. But most of the blame lays squarely at the feet of every day women that walked around with flared jeans, heels and bare mid drifts.
Who remembers when there use to be a thing called “going out tops”? Going out tops were available at such places as Forever 21, Wet Seal and Charlotte Russe. They cost between $5-$20. Sometimes you might even find one you like at a gas station or Walmart if you needed a new one after 10:00pm for an event you were attending.
Me at a Prince concert with a purple wig circa ’99-’00.
I remember when it all began. There came a time when young women in America and probably world wide could not buy clothes that met in the middle. The pants were all low-waisted and the shirts were all cropped. Even blouses that were intended for business casual wear were that way. If you had a job working in a bank or in a law office or something you had to find a way to modify the outfit as to not reveal your belly button. I relied on tank tops and blazers.
I was twenty five in 2000 so I followed the trends of the time when I was out socializing. I learned to cover my belly for church and work. I also became very conscious of keeping my underwear and butt crack covered. Butt cracks and exposed thongs were an epidemic in the early 2000s. We can blame Sisquo for that.
“Thong Song” 2000
Hindsight is 20/20 and I have come to the realization that the early 2000s were the dark ages of fashion. It was dreadful and I’m glad it’s over. Thank God Instagram hadn’t been invented yet.
note: The video on early 2000s fashion featured sunglasses with rhinestones. I loved that trend but I was not able to pursue that trend the way I wanted because I need prescription sunglasses. However, Isaac made those shades trendy in the 70s, the golden age of style and fashion.
“New Horizon” 1977
I saw “Joker” over the weekend. I enjoyed it and I would think you might too if you’ve enjoyed movies in the “Batman” series. I’ve seen all of the “Batman” movies in the theater shortly after their release since the first “Batman” film came out in 1989. The first film starred Jack Nicholson as the Joker back when these films weren’t so dark.
“Joker” was good, not great. “The Dark Knight” is still my favorite installment of the series. My favorite thing about “Joker” is the aesthetic of the movie. It seemed to take place in the 70s or 80s and I love 70s and 80s fashions, interior design and cars. I also love big cities. I like it when they when they are gritty. There is something beautiful to me about urban decay. It gives a town character. I know it’s weird but I credit this to my life which has mostly been spent in Midwestern, industrial towns. There is something very familiar and comforting about Gotham City to me.
Joaquin Phoenix did a great job portraying the Joker. I think he was the perfect person to portray the role. He made the Joker, sympathetic, awkward, charming, weird, delusional and psychotic. He tied the facets of the man together well for the role.
We’ve come a long way since the first “Batman” was released thirty years ago. I’m not saying we’ve gotten better but we’ve definitely come a long way from the starting point. I remember Jack Nicholson’s Joker being cheeky and comical. I don’t know if I remember the Joker killing anyone in 1989.
Well, today’s rendition of the Joker has some bloody scenes. It’s a very dark movie. You may want to skip seeing the film all together if you are a sensitive person. This is definitely not a film for children. I was fourteen in 1989 and if I had a fourteen year old today I would not want them to see “Joker”.
Before “Joker” was released there were complaints that the film shouldn’t be played in areas like Aurora, CO and other cities due to the shooting that happen in America every other month or so. The naysayers have a point. That’s all I’ll say for now because I don’t want to spoil the story. “Joker” is current in many of its underlying themes.
Overall, I would recommend the movie. Joaquin Phoenix is great and I bet he’ll get another Oscar nomination. The movie has a beautiful retro look while addressing trending topics. I always enjoy the grit of Gotham City. It’s gory in parts though so skip it altogether if you don’t enjoy that sort of thing or be prepared to see extreme violence.
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