#churchflow is a popular hashtag on Instagram that features users in their Sunday best. This is a post about fashion not about faith.
Simone Biles is the gymnastics star of the 2016 Olympics. She performed beautifully and is as cute as she can be. The story of her road to Rio is an inspiring American dream that will bring tears to your eyes. Simone deserves to be the belle of the ball. But I absolutely love Gabby Douglas. She is a mature champion that has represented our country well.
During the Olympic trials I could tell that Gabrielle had changed since the London Olympics. She has matured and become a young woman as opposed to the bubbly, eager girl we met in 2012. Gabby Douglas is reserved, poised and focused. She carries herself like a sophisticated lady that is in Brazil to win medals, not entertain or be anyone’s pet.
Gabby Douglas is a refreshing change from many of the young women that are paraded in front of us and lauded as celebrities. She is not a young woman that is on TV or in magazines for the purpose of arouse men. She is not there to be funny or cute. She is there to win.
There is something a little steely about Gabrielle Douglas this go round. But I love it. I see the same character in Russia’s Aliya Mustafina. Aliya competed in the London Olympics and has probably completed her gymnastics career. She and Gabby are not little little girls any more. They are veteran champions with youthful, beautiful stalwart exteriors. God bless them.
It seems that Gabby Douglas has been criticized during the Rio Olympics. I don’t take Twitter jabs very seriously because I know that people will complain and find fault in anything. The criticism of Gabby Douglas is rooted in sexism and racism. American culture wants Black women to be clowns on some level. Attractive young women are asked to be bimbos. Black Americans prefer to put light skinned women with European features on a pedestal. Gabby Douglas is none of that but still successful and there are some that hate it.
All I can say is watch out Simone Biles. Today you are America’s sweetheart. Enjoy it because you deserve it all the spoils of victory. But I hope the fickle American public will be kind to you when you when you compete in Tokyo in 2020.
I really like Viola Davis’ acceptance speech at the Emmy’s on Sunday. It has been on my mind since I heard it. She is absolutely right. There is no difference between Black women and anyone else other than the opportunities that we are offered. I’m not a Black woman in Hollywood but I am a Black woman in the American work force.
My experience and observations in and of the American work force have shown me how little American culture values Black women. A Black working woman in America will be over looked and cheated out of an opportunity before any other group. It has happened to me many times. Sometimes I look back at my career experience and I feel that if I had never tried to do better, earn more, or stand up for myself everything would have been ok. I would not have had to cope with as much friction or drama.
But I am a woman that wants to do my best and live up to my full potential. I don’t want to just accept what I am being offered. Black women are usually offered the very least of every thing. We are offered positions that offer the least amount of money, perks or influence. It’s very hard to get over that hump. It’s the same hump that Viola Davis described in her speech which was a quote from Harriet Tubman. Black women will be relegated to low wage, dead end positions regardless, of talent, contributions or education.
When you speak to a supervisor about advancing with the organization is when the problems start. In my case they are unable to come up with a real reason why I can not be promoted to a better position. The next step is for management o start problems for you which forces you to either submit to mistreatment, fight or quit. All three of those are poor options because you can never really win.
I’m very proud of Viola Davis for her accomplishment. I’m sure it will mean a lot for Black women in Hollywood. It means a lot to me as a Black woman in the American work force. I hope that in time people will begin to see Black women as leaders and not just lowly subordinates that should be grateful for whatever crumbs they are given. I also hope that more Black women will begin to see their value and fight for their stake in the American dream.