Here’s What’s Missing from Cam’s Argument

Cam Newton made public statements recently that have been heavily criticized. Cam said that a woman’s purpose is to cater to her man. Fine. That’s great, especially if a woman can land a man with Cam Newton’s kind of money.

But there were some things missing from his statement. What’s missing is the man’s role. What did the man do to deserve having a woman cater to him. In the case of Cam Newton and his public relationships he didn’t seem to offer love, loyalty, devotion, respect or honor.

Cam Newton didn’t marry Kia Proctor, the mother of his first four children. They had a relationship for around five years. He didn’t marry IG model La Reina Shaw, the mother of his youngest child either. I’m unsure of the state of the relationship between La Reina and Cameron but they don’t seem to be a couple.

Kia is thirty three and an unmarried mom of five. She has a daughter from a relationship before she met Cam Newton and she has four with Cam. What did she really get from that relationship? She spent the prime years of her youth catering to Cameron and having his children.

If Cam was devoted to Kia and their family unit he would be worth catering to particularly since he’s wealthy. But that was not the case. Cam said the relationship changed over time and he became a different person over the years. It’s clear that maintaining their family unit and raising the children in a traditional home was not a priority for Cameron. I’m sure Kia catered to Cam. What did that get her?

Kia got older and preoccupied with motherhood. She was no longer the DC stripper that charmed her way into the NFL quarterback’s heart. I certainly hope she got a nice piece of property or a lump sum of money for her efforts. But she may have been able to get that without tying herself to Cameron. I’m sure Cam would be a great sugar daddy. But he doesn’t seem to be very good husband material.

La Reina seems to be a fling that resulted in a child. It’s hard to say but Cam isn’t showing any devotion and love to her either. I don’t think a man is worth catering to for an extended amount of time if he doesn’t honor and respect you. In Cam’s defense that’s probably not even what La Reina was seeking.

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a woman catering to a man but choose one with long term potential. Otherwise you’re wasting time and energy and you’re limiting future opportunities. Kia and La Reina will have complicated families if they get married to new partners while their children are still minors. The greatest baggage of all is Cam Newton. It all sounds like a big headache to me.

Women should cater to their husbands. In order to become a husband a man needs to prove himself honorable. Women should cater to men that are loyal, loving and devoted to them and their children.

There is no reason to waste energy and time on fly by night relationships. Obviously, that’s the case even if he’s rich like Cam. Kia should have gotten some nice jewelry and and kept on stripping. La Reina should have gotten a few nice vacations and kept on IG modeling. They both would have been better off keeping Cam at a distance. If they met that rich guy they could have met a different one; one with long term potential. Women need to invest wisely.

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I AM A MAN

Here it comes. Yet another blog posting that has been inspired by my hero and celebrity crush Cam Newton. Those of you that follow Cam’s career know that he is a controversial figure for reasons that are beyond me. Much of America dislikes Cameron. He’s too cocky and loud and confident and flashy I suppose. I love all of that about him.

At the end of last year’s football season some fans were up in arms that Cam had the nerve to leave a press conference after his team was defeated in the Super Bowl. He was labeled disrespectful, rude, unprofessional and childish. The PR team for the Carolina Panthers is surely using the off season to make Cam Newton more likeable to more NFL fans. To be blunt they want him to be more likeable to White people.

The other day I ran across an article titled “Cam Newton is 27 but a 5-year-old in His Heart”. I was instantly offended by this headline. Cam Newton had a great season last year, went to the Super Bowl, was a Heisman Trophy winner, a number one draft pick and he’s a college graduate. Cam is philanthropist, a TV personality and a fashion trend setter. All of those are great accomplishments but a sports writer decided to compare him to a young child because he has an outgoing, playful personality. I don’t understand why he can’t just be an adult with a youthful, loving spirit. The article either intentionally or inadvertently presents Cameron as child like in order to make him unthreatening.

The headline was actually a quote from one of Cam’s team mates. He probably didn’t mean anything demeaning by it and the reporter probably didn’t either. But it’s a shame to me that in America Black men need to be made into some sort of clown in order to be liked by White people. I don’t think that Black men should even seek to be liked or accepted by America. They should seek respect and I believe that Cam deserves that. He doesn’t deserve to be looked at as an overgrown child.

America has a very difficult time respecting it’s Black citizens. Pro White racism is not built on the accomplishments of Whites but the degradation of non Whites, particularly Blacks. Even when Blacks are accomplished there is a tendency for racists to try and tarnish their character or at least ignore their contributions and talents. This is how White racism is kept alive. ESPN should be ashamed of themselves for posting that article. You would think a sports media company would have more respect for an athlete like Cam Newton.

NFL: Carolina Panthers-Training Camp — Jul 28, 2016; Spartanburg, SC, USA; Carolina Panthers quarterback Cam Newton (1) passes the ball during the training camp at Wofford College. Mandatory Credit: Jeremy Brevard-USA TODAY Sports

Happy Birthday Cam Newton – Shannon in Kansas City

Yesterday was Cam Newton’s 27th birthday. Glory be to God for that marvelous creation. I hope he enjoyed a great birthday. I absolutely love that man and I would probably marry him if given the chance. He is incredibly handsome, sweet natured, big hearted, outgoing, friendly and prosperous. God Bless him.

This may sound a bit strange but another reason that I love him is his choice in female companionship. His girlfriend,baby mama fiancé or whatever is a single mother and she worked as a stripper at some point in her life. I pass no judgment on anyone that makes that career choice. Heck, life is tough, bills need to be paid and the baby needs shoes. I’m glad to see that Cameron isn’t judgmental towards women either. It’s a refreshing change.

Social media is a hobby of mine and I am shocked to see how many men, particularly Black men, pass judgment on women based on their sexual history or at least their perceived sexual history. Black men and their sycophant Black women love to degrade Black single moms or anyone that they can label a slut via social media. They put modest women up on a pedestal but these men probably don’t have modest morals themselves.

On Mother’s Day Cam posted a really sweet message to his lady. It’s really nice to see a man praising the woman that he chose to impregnate. I’ve been privy to conversations where men have nasty attitudes towards women they once love or were at least found to be attractive but now they ha

Their attitude is that unvirtuous, single mothers are not deserving of love once they’ve made choices that they deem as foolish which lead them to be unmarried and pregnant. Meanwhile, Black men are not held to any standards of purity whatsoever. These Black single moms didn’t get there by themselves.

I think it’s lovely that Cam Newton fell in love with a stripper and I hope he marries her. I think it’s great that Cam Newton does not judge women based on puritanical standards of sexuality and purity. It’s nice to see a man fall in love with a woman’s character, intellect and beauty as opposed to choosing them based on how many lovers they may have had in the past.

I wish Cameron and Kia the very best. I’m hoping that their story will become a Lifetime movie one day. I’m not a fan of Disney, Prince Charming type movies but I would certainly watch that one. If things don’t work out between Cameron and his son’s mother I hope he will marry me. I’m quite a bit older than him but hey, he seems like an open minded guy that doesn’t judge women by society’s harsh standards of what makes a woman worthy of love and attention.

Cam Newton – Shannon in Kansas City

Cam Newton de los Panthers de Carolina tras anotar un touchdown ante los Saints de Nueva Orléans el domingo 16 de septiembre de 2012. (AP Foto/Rainier Ehrhardt)

I am not a Panthers fan and I have no ties to the Carolinas but I am cheering on the Carolina Panthers in the Playoffs this year now that the Chiefs have been eliminated. I have liked Cam Newton for a few years now. I think he is as cute as he can be and he has a bubbly and energetic personality. He’s had an impressive 15-1 season. That is absolutely thrilling. Good for Cam Newton and the Panthers squad.

Cam Newton has taken a lot of criticism this season. Football fans seem to think that he is arrogant, cocky and some even refer to him as thuggish. I really don’t know how they came to these conclusions. Cam was condemned by a fan earlier this season for an end zone dance that they found offensive. Last weekend he was chided by the public for crumbling up a team flag and throwing it on the ground. I took both of these gestures as playful not malicious or lascivious in any way.

I think the real problem here is that Cam is a Black quarterback having a great season and he has the opportunity to win a Super Bowl title with his team. If his team wins Super Bowl L he will defeat one of the great quarterbacks of our era which will rub a lot of fans the wrong way.

Cam is confident, stylish and has an outgoing personality, a dry wit and a sarcastic sense of humor. He is comfortable in front of cameras and he seems to be enjoying his fame. I think that a confident, self assured Black man that speaks his mind rubs a lot of people in America the wrong way. They want Black men to be as humble as monks no matter how great the accomplishment. A Black man is always suppose to keep his head bowed and be grateful for whatever opportunity a White man has allowed him to have.

Black men are socialized to not be confident in American culture. They are taught directly and indirectly that they are stupid, violent and stoic. America does not accept that Blacks can have a wide range of emotions or personality traits. America teaches it’s Black men that they are not as good and don’t deserve success, respect or honor. It’s truly heartbreaking. Black women are fed similar message but for whatever reason there are many more self assured Black women than men.

Sports is entertainment and I like sportsmen that can put on a show. I want to see some personality and some pizazz and flash. I fully support end zone dances regardless of who’s doing it. That’s what Newton provides the football viewing public, entertainment. I think he’s doing OK if the worst things someone can say about him is that he danced in an end zone or threw down the opposing teams flag.

My advice to Cam Newton would be to ignore the naysayers but he seems to be doing that anyway. So my advice to Cam Newton is to keep doing what he’s doing and keep being who he is. It’s working. Be confident and be a role model to all the little Black boys and girls across America that are taught by this racist culture that they are mean, angry, stupid, ugly and doomed to a life of poverty and frustration. I already admire you Cam. Win Super Bowl L and become my hero #1.

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