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I finished “Spare” by Prince Harry on audio book this week. It was OK. It is long and listening to Prince Harry talk for about twelve hours was boring in parts but I think the book is worthwhile. “Spare” is an introspective reflection on Harry’s life and his opportunity to explain assumptions about himself.

To sum it up Harry has a deep seeded resentment of the British press. He blames the British press for the death of his mother, not having an opportunity to grieve his mother’s death, a compromised of his military career, the loss of romantic relationships and ridicule. I think his disdain for the press if fair. His relationship and feelings towards the British press were in place long before he knew Meghan.

Harry discussed his family ties. He was very disappointed in his father and brother after marrying Meghan Markle. Harry’s marriage uncovered jealousy among the family, particularly from his brother William and step mother Camilla. Meghan has been the center of media attention and on line debates but she stepped into a well established media circus and family rivalries.

After reading “Spare” I understand why Harry fell in love with Meghan. They’re a good match and I admire their relationship. They have been through a lot of stressful and unusual situations together but they maintained their bond. Harry knew what he wanted before he met Meghan and when he met her he followed through on his personal relationship goals.

Harry comes across as genuine, patriotic, humble and family oriented. I believe this book is the truth from his point of view. I’m glad he took the time to tell his story and speak for himself after being misunderstood for his entire life.

You will enjoy this book if you’ve followed the royal family. I appreciate a middle aged, married father of two taking the time to sort his life out and make sense of it all. Regardless of your background that’s a productive thing to do. I’m not sure it happens enough. There isn’t a lot of action in this book and again, Harry is reading to you for around twelve hours. “Spare” isn’t for everybody. Many will find it boring.